4 Top Wedding Day Logistics Mistakes & How to Avoid Them

To ensure your special day runs smoothly, we’re sharing our expertise on five common wedding day logistics mistakes—from getting ready and transportation to navigating the first look debate—so you can focus on celebrating without the stress.

1. Getting Ready

   • Who – Who is important to have with you as you prepare for one of the most meaningful life milestones? Family, friends, chosen family, styling pros, your planner, photographer, and videographer are all often included. Some couples choose to get ready together, a breath of calm normalcy before the crescendo of celebration.
   • What – Have a plan for what needs to be done ahead of this time and what you need to achieve during this time. You might have a list of party and family members who are participating in styling services. Don’t forget to plan for breakfast, lunch, and hydrating!
     
     Photo by Jen Boris @jenboris
   • Where – We highly recommend choosing a pair of roomy and photogenic hotel suites for your readying location. This allows plenty of space for your VIPs to spread out and horizontal surfaces near natural light and outlets for your stylists. Bonus if your separate parties are in the same hotel, separated by a floor or opposite ends of a wing for easy coordination and vendor coverage. Save a couch, bed or wall area to keep clean and free for group photos in those matching PJs or once you’re all dressed!

   Others will get ready at home, or in some cases, parties are getting ready at different locations. In these cases, it is important to clarify priorities with photo and video early on to either pick one party to document or hire two of each so they can divide and conquer the morning details. This can also impact how and when you transport your VIPs to the next destination.

   • When – The biggest variables on timing your wedding morning are anchored in your ceremony start time at one end, and your styling services at the other end. If you have 12 party members needing hair and make up but you dream of sleeping in until noon… you might be looking at needing several stylists and lots of space. The standard for estimating beauty and grooming services is 60 minutes per bride or groom and 45 minutes for all other participants. The next biggest variable impacting timing is whether you will do a first look and/or any pre-ceremony photos.
     
     Photo by Jen Boris @jenboris
   • Why – Your priorities here are valid and this time really sets the tone for your wedding day! If you know something about yourself, perhaps that you might feel overwhelmed being surrounded by lots of people and hype, carve out some time for yourself to catch your breath and read through your vows. If you can’t wait to fill a room with your besties and pop the champagne, then hit the playlist and soak up all the love as you prepare.
     
     Photo by Henington Studios @heningtonstudios
   • How – It’s important to share your expectations and questions with your loved ones and vendors as you book them. Curious about how they handle scheduling or if they offer in-salon services? Ask! Your planner will help facilitate more conversations during the coordination phase to ensure your timeline is right-sized based on your participants, services, location, and required timing.
     
     Photos by Teresa @_teresawilliams

2. First Look or Not?

   • Who – First looks can be private between the couple for the sake of getting through the nerves and only having the media team there to capture the moment. Others might want an audience to cheer them on and you can have a first look in front of your family, party, or the whole city.
     
     Photo by Tim & Ebony @timandebonyphoto
   • Where – A photogenic first look can happen in a park, outside your beautiful hotel, in a lobby, or at the ceremony site before the ceremony, just to name a few. Otherwise, a saved first look happens during the processional. Line up and take deep breaths!
   • When – Seeing your partner before the ceremony is a popular consideration. Not everyone goes for it but we see a majority of couples taking advantage of this special moment and the consolidation it offers for pre-ceremony photos with each other, party, and family. This means more time to enjoy cocktail hour and/or private time after the ceremony!
     
     Photo by Meg Dunn @megdunnphotography
   • Why – You might consider sharing private vows or gifts during a first look. Alternatively, you might not want to actually see each other, but do a First Touch where you are photographed on opposite sides of a wall or door for the sake of building anticipation but saving the First Look for the ceremony.

   Perhaps you want to save your first look and all the emotions that come with it for your ceremony. Communicate this explicitly with your planner and vendor team so they can help facilitate a strict and separated timeline for you to ensure you don’t cross paths before you intend to. The caveat is that this impacts your transportation and photos. The couple needs to be transported separately before the ceremony—plan ahead! The bulk of your photos are moved to after the ceremony, so if your priority is saving the first look, plan to extend or miss a good portion of the cocktail hour depending on your photo needs.

   • How – Ask your planner for tips and examples of what your first look could look like, whether before or at your ceremony. Discuss your preferences and priorities as a couple and land on a decision. Finally, lean on the expertise of your wedding team to collaborate on a realistic timeline, with buffers, to make your wedding vision come to life!
     
     Photo by Jen Boris @jenboris

3. Transportation

   • Who – Determining who you offer rides to depends on your wedding logistics, party vibe, guest experience, and budget. We suggest having a vehicle to transport the wedding party or VIPs from readying location to offsite photos to the venue (plus from ceremony venue to reception venue if they are separate). Be sure to save a seat for your photography and videography teams, coordinator if they ride along, and security if you have more than 14 passengers and alcohol on board. If you do bring alcohol on board, let your transportation provider know in advance and delegate cooler duties to a party person.
     Photo by Meg Dunn @megdunnphotography
     Pro Tip #1: Pack drinks and ice packs or minimal ice in structured, reusable coolers; do not use styrofoam as they inevitably fall apart and can lead to a cleaning fee.
     Pro Tip #2: Choose clear liquids so spills are limited to wet spots and not colored stains.

   Considering guest shuttles? It can be helpful to use your save the dates to direct guests to your website where they can be polled on whether they would ride a shuttle between locations if offered. This can help you estimate the number of passengers and reserve an appropriately sized vehicle and/or plan for multiple shuttle runs.

   • What – Ground transportation is a specific niche of wedding day support and you need the experts to ensure everything goes smoothly. Connect with your planner early to discuss rides and prioritize insurance, support, flexibility, fleet, and reliability alongside budget. Security and greeters may be added to further support your riders’ experience.
     Photo by Good Moon Collective @goodmooncollective
   • Where – It’s important to communicate clear pick up and drop off locations with addresses and even instructions as to which entrance the vehicles should stage at. Hotels are a great example of large properties that can be confusing for guests to know at which door to meet a driver. Ask your planner to confirm the hotel and venue instructions for staging vehicles and share that with your transportation company and passengers (via a VIP Timeline) so everyone is on the same page.
     Photo by Meg Dunn @megdunnphotography
   • When – Keep in mind that traffic is a huge variable, especially on weekends, during rush hour, holidays, and during local street-based events or bridge liftings. For example, if the map says it’s a 10 minute drive, add a buffer for boarding time and estimate 20 minutes for the vehicle to navigate to your destination.
     
     Your initial transportation schedule for the wedding party will be an estimate based on your preliminary timeline. Your planner should tighten up timing and reconfirm addresses and entrances as you get closer to your date, while keeping the relevant vendors in the loop. For example, if your first look is at your downtown hotel, followed by offsite party photos at Millennium Park, and then your ceremony and reception are at a south loop venue, all the related logistics have to be accounted for (time of first look, commute timing to the park, exact drop off at the park, photographer & video ride along, connect photographer and driver via text so they can give an ETA to reboard, commute time to venue, hard deadline to drop off party at venue, etc).
     
     If you decide to offer late night shuttle rides to return guests to their hotel and/or an after party, work with your planner and transportation provider to determine the most economical and logical plan. It might be that you have two vehicles for the day, (1) for the wedding party and (1) for the guests from hotel to venue. Then you might have a (3) vehicle come for the last few hours of the evening to shuttle. An alternative is if it makes more sense for a vehicle to stay from day service through until the night shuttles.
     Photo by KORC Photography @kcbasso
   • Why – Providing cohesive and professional transportation for your wedding party can be an essential part of a smooth and stress free wedding day. It is especially convenient to keep your documentation team with you so they can capture the fun on the ride and not get separated from you at offsite photo locations.
     
     Guest shuttles are not assumed, however, you know your people best. If you think they would benefit from easy transportation, ADA accessibility, or an elevated experience, consider supporting your guests with rides. Don’t forget to consider pre- and post-wedding activities such as airport transfers, rehearsals and dinners, and farewell brunch.
   • How – Simply reach out to your planner or directly to the pros, Pontarelli and their helpful team will consult with you on your transportation needs. We know about profound weddings, and Pontarelli is at the top of our list every time!
     Photo by KORC Photography @kcbasso

4. Doors vs. Ceremony Time

   • Who – Communicate your wedding ceremony timing to your vendors and guests. We suggest starting with your venue or house of worship based on your rental window. Be sure to also clearly communicate specific instructions to your VIPs who may need to arrive early or meet elsewhere for pre-ceremony photos or other activities. We hand out a VIP version of the timeline at the rehearsal so everyone can be prepared.
     Photo by Henington Studios @heningtonstudios
   • What – Include your ceremony time in your wedding invitations and reiterate this in addition to the time the doors open to your venue or house of worship on your wedding website and/or details enclosure card.
     
     Example:
     Invitation: Ceremony at five o’clock in the evening

   Website: Guest Arrival 4:30pm – Ceremony begins at 5:00pm
   Enclosure Details Card: Ceremony starts promptly at 5:00pm
   
   Photo by Fox & Ivory @foxandivory

   • Where – Share your wedding ceremony timing on at least two of these: on your invitations, wedding website, and detail enclosure cards.
   • When – Create a wedding website as soon as you like, and publish it for your guests to reference when your save the dates go out. Include ceremony timing details on your website as soon as you have it. Mail your invitations out 10–12 weeks before your wedding date.
     
     Photo by Jen Boris @jenboris | Stationery by Ashley Printz @ashprintz
   • Why – Your wedding planner will help you navigate choosing your ceremony time based on your venue or house of worship rental and relevant priorities for the overall day. They will build in some buffers so that if the day is running behind or ahead they can adjust accordingly. This includes having a ceremony start time published at 5pm to guests but having a 15 minute window in which to start the ceremony in case Aunt Tilda is in the bathroom, or a groomsman’s boutonniere needs to be repaired.
   • How – Collaborate with your planner, venue, and stationer to confirm and communicate your ceremony timing to the team and your guests.
     Photo by Henington Studios @heningtonstudios

Rebecca Pope is the owner of Something Profound Weddings, a full-service wedding planning company based in Chicago that creates personalized and meaningful celebrations for couples. With over a decade of experience, Rebecca has a passion for bringing each couple’s unique love story to life, ensuring every detail reflects their vision. She believes that a wedding should be more than just an event—it should be a profound and joyful start to a lifetime of love. Inquire for wedding planning, coordination, or officiating support for your profound moments.